I suck at dancing and its ruining my college experience. Help!?

I think you should focus on the music more than the girl, the music is protestant and the girl will follow you. Do your own thing out there. Get you hands off her hips! You don't need to touch her all the time. If she wants to be touched she will touch you, or she will take your hands and put them where she wants them, when she bends over in front of you, put your arms out in front of you and keep your shoulder's moving with the music, look around like your the biggest Playa in the room...Cuz you are! Have confidence and she will have fun. That's what its all about....She is dancing like that to be noticed, she just needs you for support..Loosen up and work on bending your knees and foot movement, keep your shoulder's, arms and hands moving, if you feel like your just standing there, bust a move!! She will be impressed that you can move without her help. You got this dude! Good luck!